Someone commented about my last article in a forum that got me thinking. It was the article about attracting women, remember. Check the last article, the title was 4 simple ways of attracting women. Well the friend in the forum mentioned that a man’s purse or pocket in this case is equally important. That it should even be the first.
Well I believe that there should be money in every relationship. I mean money solves a lot of problems in life. Men nowadays are getting married to women who are capable financially. Most ask this question at the beginning of a relationship - where she is working?
They say that way the girl won’t be a liability but an asset. Anyway I subscribe to the wife having something to do. Even if she is selling in a supermarket. Apart from the monetary gains to the family, it keeps her busy, makes her productive and other things. But that is the topic of another discussion.
Today we are focusing on how important money is to a relationship, lets say a new one. Guy just met girl. Should the woman check out the guy’s bank account, his assets, the blimp on him, his ride and mansion before saying yes. Should the man trace the girls family to be sure if her father is the head of a large conglomerate before he approaches her.
My take is that money is important in a relationship. Our main concern is how much importance should we attach to it? You can just leave your comments below. I like to hear what you think about this topic.
Meanwhile if you are planning to be rich, very rich, wealthy, it is not bad thing. In fact I encourage you, I say to anyone that wants to can be rich, it is a matter of proper monetary habits. You reduce your expenses, save some, invest it and you’ll be rich. There are two goods I now that can teach you how to do that. You can get it at http://www.moneyinayear.com/sq.html
Friday, November 19, 2010
Thursday, November 4, 2010
How to make a Woman fall Madly in Love with you
I know you are probably wondering where your love life is going to as you have no woman in your life right now and you don’t know how to get one to like you, much less fall madly in love with you. Well I am here to tell you that it is easy to attract women.
First though you have to change your thinking about women. Yes it is your stereotypical thinking about women that is holding you from finding a way to capturing them. Women are difficult. I hear that all the time. And I tell you speaking from a woman’s point of view, it’s not true. Women are not difficult at all. You men stand at a distance and pass judgment on the womenfolk without giving them a chance to prove themselves.
Secondly change your thinking about yourself I mean your attitude about yourself. Stop the thinking pattern that you are unlucky with women. I tell you with that kind of thinking it will be difficult to attract any woman. So believe that you are a good-looking nice guy who can attract any woman he wants in his life.
Women are really simple creatures. They are fun to be with. They make great friends. They are loving, creative and interesting. That’s why they are mothers, sisters and wives. Therefore stop thinking that some women are off limits, you can’t just get close them tor talk to them not to talk of asking them out.
Thirdly look good. Don’t tell your self you are the ugliest person in the universe; remember number 2 above, that’s not a good attitude. Dress well, now I don’t mean buy all expensive clothes in the supermarket beside your house.
No that’s not what I mean. It is just that you are addressed the way you dress. Your dressing goes a long way to tell your story in the eyes of people particularly the opposite sex. In effect you have to look good, get a hair cut, and put on some nice clothes and you are on.
Fourth, get the required knowledge, the right words to say, the expressions, right here. Once you as a man understand all these things about a woman, then it would very to get them to fall in love with you. I assure you that you will get any woman you want, you are even sure of being laid if you do this.
First though you have to change your thinking about women. Yes it is your stereotypical thinking about women that is holding you from finding a way to capturing them. Women are difficult. I hear that all the time. And I tell you speaking from a woman’s point of view, it’s not true. Women are not difficult at all. You men stand at a distance and pass judgment on the womenfolk without giving them a chance to prove themselves.
Secondly change your thinking about yourself I mean your attitude about yourself. Stop the thinking pattern that you are unlucky with women. I tell you with that kind of thinking it will be difficult to attract any woman. So believe that you are a good-looking nice guy who can attract any woman he wants in his life.
Women are really simple creatures. They are fun to be with. They make great friends. They are loving, creative and interesting. That’s why they are mothers, sisters and wives. Therefore stop thinking that some women are off limits, you can’t just get close them tor talk to them not to talk of asking them out.
Thirdly look good. Don’t tell your self you are the ugliest person in the universe; remember number 2 above, that’s not a good attitude. Dress well, now I don’t mean buy all expensive clothes in the supermarket beside your house.
No that’s not what I mean. It is just that you are addressed the way you dress. Your dressing goes a long way to tell your story in the eyes of people particularly the opposite sex. In effect you have to look good, get a hair cut, and put on some nice clothes and you are on.
Fourth, get the required knowledge, the right words to say, the expressions, right here. Once you as a man understand all these things about a woman, then it would very to get them to fall in love with you. I assure you that you will get any woman you want, you are even sure of being laid if you do this.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
It takes two to Tango
Still on that programme , Tinsel (I love this soap). Continuing from the last scene here the man Regi said that it takes two to tango, it is so true. Remember he rebuked the waiter and said there are always two sides to every story. I agree with him. It takes two tango. The pregnant PA was as much at fault as him. No one used each other here, both are to blame for anything that occurs. Bothe should bear the full consequences and they are, believe me but the innocent bystander Regi’s wife is also suffering.
I brought this up because I hear a lot stories sometimes, when advertisity occurs, instead the people involved trying to solve the problem, they start looking for a scape goat. They look for whom to blame for their misfortune, forgetting that they were involved from the beginning. If a young lady gets pregnant for instance and assuming she comes from a rich home her father will call the police to arrest and detain the boy responsible instead of calling his daughter and hearing from her. The boy did not rape his daughter, they were friends, just that the father could not stomach the thought of a poor boy impregnating his precious daughter.
Or a situation a lady gets pregnant for a man and he abandons her. First he asks her whether she was not on pills and then he asks if he is the only boyfriend she has. Just because he feels that he's not ready for marriage, then he runs away and abandons the poor girl to suffer alone.
It is not good, it’s very bad. Remember the beginning, when things were moving on fine between you both. Now that things have turned sour both of you should sort it together.
Anyway over to tinsel, Regi answered the question of yesterday with my answers. The whole 3 of them, can you believe it. I don’t want to say it but I told you so. Anyway he’s having this entire problem because he is not an alpha male. Want to know who is an alpha male, want to be one, send me an email at ugojules@gmail.com with the subject line; free ebook-alpha male and I will send you the free ebook on how to be an alpha.
Till next time. You know I always love your comments.
I brought this up because I hear a lot stories sometimes, when advertisity occurs, instead the people involved trying to solve the problem, they start looking for a scape goat. They look for whom to blame for their misfortune, forgetting that they were involved from the beginning. If a young lady gets pregnant for instance and assuming she comes from a rich home her father will call the police to arrest and detain the boy responsible instead of calling his daughter and hearing from her. The boy did not rape his daughter, they were friends, just that the father could not stomach the thought of a poor boy impregnating his precious daughter.
Or a situation a lady gets pregnant for a man and he abandons her. First he asks her whether she was not on pills and then he asks if he is the only boyfriend she has. Just because he feels that he's not ready for marriage, then he runs away and abandons the poor girl to suffer alone.
It is not good, it’s very bad. Remember the beginning, when things were moving on fine between you both. Now that things have turned sour both of you should sort it together.
Anyway over to tinsel, Regi answered the question of yesterday with my answers. The whole 3 of them, can you believe it. I don’t want to say it but I told you so. Anyway he’s having this entire problem because he is not an alpha male. Want to know who is an alpha male, want to be one, send me an email at ugojules@gmail.com with the subject line; free ebook-alpha male and I will send you the free ebook on how to be an alpha.
Till next time. You know I always love your comments.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Loving two at a Time
I watched my favorite soap opera on tv yesterday called Tinsel. After today’s edition , an argument of sorts ensued about the last scene. It goes like this. A married man, Regi had an affair with his PA who got pregnant. He was at a bar discussing what to do with her with the lady’s friend, because of the pregnant woman’s mental health problem.
Regi overheard a waiter giving advice to young man about his friend’s girlfriend. The young man said his best friend is dating a mentally deranged girl and wondered what to tell him, and the waiter (the love doctor of the show) advised him to tell his friend to run for his dear life.
Now this man, Reginald called him over and said it was insensitive and cruel, adding that there were two sides to every story; which made his drinking partner to observe that he was still in love with his pregnant mistress. It is an interesting soap, so check your DSTV guide for details of the time for Tinsel.
The argument was whether it is true that the man was in love with the pregnant lady. My take was that he wasn’t. He just cared for her
1. As a woman he dated before
2. A woman he claimed to have loved even if to get what he wanted
3. A woman carrying his baby
That was my reasons because I’ve watched many films and we usually discuss after. There have been several film where the fiancée refuses to go ahead with a a wedding another lady got pregnant for her man. The man will beg and beg and she will refuse, some end happily, others don’t end so happily.
But what I learned from all that is that men usually love the one they want to marry or the one they are married to. Any other one is a mistake (at least so they say), that they are silly to make and cause problems for the women folk. I also believe that one cannot be in love with two different people at the same time, at least not with the same intensity.
So unless, the man was forced to marry am woman (that still happen in this age?), or he has stopped loving his wife, another woman getting pregnant for him shouldn’t dissolve his marriage. He made the mistake, so he should take responsibility; he should be made to, for the woman and her child.
But his wife shouldn’t leave, especially if he apologies and explains and promises no to do such again. He will take proper care of his mistress and the child but not at the expense of his wife and children or fiancée as the case may be.
That is what I think, what of you? What do you think? What will you do if you are a woman and in such a position, will you leave your man? If you are planning to marry and someonelse gets pregnant for you will leave your love and marry the pregnant one?
I love to hear your comments.
Regi overheard a waiter giving advice to young man about his friend’s girlfriend. The young man said his best friend is dating a mentally deranged girl and wondered what to tell him, and the waiter (the love doctor of the show) advised him to tell his friend to run for his dear life.
Now this man, Reginald called him over and said it was insensitive and cruel, adding that there were two sides to every story; which made his drinking partner to observe that he was still in love with his pregnant mistress. It is an interesting soap, so check your DSTV guide for details of the time for Tinsel.
The argument was whether it is true that the man was in love with the pregnant lady. My take was that he wasn’t. He just cared for her
1. As a woman he dated before
2. A woman he claimed to have loved even if to get what he wanted
3. A woman carrying his baby
That was my reasons because I’ve watched many films and we usually discuss after. There have been several film where the fiancée refuses to go ahead with a a wedding another lady got pregnant for her man. The man will beg and beg and she will refuse, some end happily, others don’t end so happily.
But what I learned from all that is that men usually love the one they want to marry or the one they are married to. Any other one is a mistake (at least so they say), that they are silly to make and cause problems for the women folk. I also believe that one cannot be in love with two different people at the same time, at least not with the same intensity.
So unless, the man was forced to marry am woman (that still happen in this age?), or he has stopped loving his wife, another woman getting pregnant for him shouldn’t dissolve his marriage. He made the mistake, so he should take responsibility; he should be made to, for the woman and her child.
But his wife shouldn’t leave, especially if he apologies and explains and promises no to do such again. He will take proper care of his mistress and the child but not at the expense of his wife and children or fiancée as the case may be.
That is what I think, what of you? What do you think? What will you do if you are a woman and in such a position, will you leave your man? If you are planning to marry and someonelse gets pregnant for you will leave your love and marry the pregnant one?
I love to hear your comments.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
I got the best answer in Yahoo Answers
Yes I really did. My answer was chosen among other answers. This is not the first time it is happening to me, but it’s been a while that happened. And I am so excited.
You can check the question:
What would be your best advice for LDRs? (Long distance relationships)?
Yeah that’s me. My picture. I ‘m a bomb aint I. Yeah. Anyway I won. So let me celebrate, pop the champagne, jump around, do a little victory dance as yahoo instructed me. Ha ha a ha.
You know I truly, sincerely, totally believe everything That I wrote there. Oh yeah I believe that love is be all and end all of any relationship. The reason I wrote that answer wasn’t because I wanted to be chosen as the best, no it was mainly because of two reasons
1- I really believe anyone in such situation can work things out, if only that’s what they want.
2- I am in one. Um-hu. I am in a long distance relation ship, so I know where it pinches most.
My dearest lives in... well we are two countries apart. It hurts but we agreed that it’s the best situation right now. Definitely we won’t continue like this, we’ll stat living together soon. As that is the ideal, couples should stay together always. But sometimes circumstances don’t always align well for everybody so that in the beginning you both need to adjust.
Like I wrote, with love as the number ingredient one you’ll make. Love is at the beginning, middle and end of any relationship. The end being in your ripe old age. As long as there is true love, there will be mutual respect and understanding between the two of you and then you are set.
Again remember to keep the flame of love alive all the time. Send eh text messages. Not just “how was your day text” but also “missing you text”. Also sexy messages are allowed make it steamy, hot.
Don’t miss the phone calls, very important. Use emails and chat online whenever possible. Let’s stop here for now.
Next time I’ll get into the pros and cons of LDR(Long-distance –relationships). Meanwhile what do you think? Is there any more factors that need to be added to make it work? Do you even think it can work? Your comments are highly appreciated. Thanks.
You can check the question:
What would be your best advice for LDRs? (Long distance relationships)?
Yeah that’s me. My picture. I ‘m a bomb aint I. Yeah. Anyway I won. So let me celebrate, pop the champagne, jump around, do a little victory dance as yahoo instructed me. Ha ha a ha.
You know I truly, sincerely, totally believe everything That I wrote there. Oh yeah I believe that love is be all and end all of any relationship. The reason I wrote that answer wasn’t because I wanted to be chosen as the best, no it was mainly because of two reasons
1- I really believe anyone in such situation can work things out, if only that’s what they want.
2- I am in one. Um-hu. I am in a long distance relation ship, so I know where it pinches most.
My dearest lives in... well we are two countries apart. It hurts but we agreed that it’s the best situation right now. Definitely we won’t continue like this, we’ll stat living together soon. As that is the ideal, couples should stay together always. But sometimes circumstances don’t always align well for everybody so that in the beginning you both need to adjust.
Like I wrote, with love as the number ingredient one you’ll make. Love is at the beginning, middle and end of any relationship. The end being in your ripe old age. As long as there is true love, there will be mutual respect and understanding between the two of you and then you are set.
Again remember to keep the flame of love alive all the time. Send eh text messages. Not just “how was your day text” but also “missing you text”. Also sexy messages are allowed make it steamy, hot.
Don’t miss the phone calls, very important. Use emails and chat online whenever possible. Let’s stop here for now.
Next time I’ll get into the pros and cons of LDR(Long-distance –relationships). Meanwhile what do you think? Is there any more factors that need to be added to make it work? Do you even think it can work? Your comments are highly appreciated. Thanks.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Ten tips for best internet dating
Want to get the best out of your internet dating? These are the tips that will help you make sure you don’t get burned engaging in the virtual world.
1 Attitude: Your attitude is everything. You need to have a good attitude about way you are doing. Believe you are the best there is, that you deserve every good thing that comes your way. You deserve the happiness that comes your way. With that attitude you will go far. Believe that that you are going to he best date there is in the virtual world.
2 The site: Be very careful the site(s) you choose to use for getting your date. This sis your life we re talking about. Choose site that is reputable, dedicated to helping their customers and have been around for long. If possible get a recommendation from a friend about the site before joining.
3 Profiling Site: This means that the site uses the answers you answer to match you with people of similar interests. Choose a site that uses psychometric profiling. With the basic questions that you are asked they’ll get you lots of match-ups.
4 Profile picture: Make your profile as interesting as possible. Use a good picture; you will get better results with a picture than without one. If you are worried that someone you know might see your picture, use a site that allows you to set your profile so that only people you choose can see you.
5 Free trials: Take advantage of free trials as many sites offer a free trial. Usually this does not allow you to actually contact the other person, but it does allow you to see your possible matches, and get a feel for how the site works.
6 Your Profile: This is where most people get it wrong. In addition to using the series of answers most sites give you to help you fill in your profile details, try to add more of your own. It really helps as it’ll differentiate you from so many otters that are using the same answers.
7 Security: This should be the first thing on your mind whenever you are engaging on any relationship so you don’t love your life. More so with internet dating you don’t see the person until much later. It is paramount that you give out certain details about yourself till you are sure it’s safe. Stuff like telephone numbers and home address shouldn’t be given easily.
8 Inform a friend: Whatever you are doing in the internet world, at least give a few details about it to your sister or brother or a trusted friend. Especially when you are going to meet a date you’ve seen online give the address to your friend. And meet with your date in an open place, come with own car, if possible be the one to pick the point of meet.
9 Perseverance: Perseverance is everything. You need to be patient; you can’t just go in today and expect to find a date tomorrow. It doesn’t work that way. You need to search, research and check every information you get thoroughly before making a move.
10 Honesty: Be truthful about the things you put in your profile. If you are not comfortable with the answer to a question, just say so, instead of giving the wrong answer or lying about anything. If things work out fine and you find a great date and when you start meeting, your date discovers that everything about you have been lies that will be the end of the relationship. Not to mention the damage to your reputation.
1 Attitude: Your attitude is everything. You need to have a good attitude about way you are doing. Believe you are the best there is, that you deserve every good thing that comes your way. You deserve the happiness that comes your way. With that attitude you will go far. Believe that that you are going to he best date there is in the virtual world.
2 The site: Be very careful the site(s) you choose to use for getting your date. This sis your life we re talking about. Choose site that is reputable, dedicated to helping their customers and have been around for long. If possible get a recommendation from a friend about the site before joining.
3 Profiling Site: This means that the site uses the answers you answer to match you with people of similar interests. Choose a site that uses psychometric profiling. With the basic questions that you are asked they’ll get you lots of match-ups.
4 Profile picture: Make your profile as interesting as possible. Use a good picture; you will get better results with a picture than without one. If you are worried that someone you know might see your picture, use a site that allows you to set your profile so that only people you choose can see you.
5 Free trials: Take advantage of free trials as many sites offer a free trial. Usually this does not allow you to actually contact the other person, but it does allow you to see your possible matches, and get a feel for how the site works.
6 Your Profile: This is where most people get it wrong. In addition to using the series of answers most sites give you to help you fill in your profile details, try to add more of your own. It really helps as it’ll differentiate you from so many otters that are using the same answers.
7 Security: This should be the first thing on your mind whenever you are engaging on any relationship so you don’t love your life. More so with internet dating you don’t see the person until much later. It is paramount that you give out certain details about yourself till you are sure it’s safe. Stuff like telephone numbers and home address shouldn’t be given easily.
8 Inform a friend: Whatever you are doing in the internet world, at least give a few details about it to your sister or brother or a trusted friend. Especially when you are going to meet a date you’ve seen online give the address to your friend. And meet with your date in an open place, come with own car, if possible be the one to pick the point of meet.
9 Perseverance: Perseverance is everything. You need to be patient; you can’t just go in today and expect to find a date tomorrow. It doesn’t work that way. You need to search, research and check every information you get thoroughly before making a move.
10 Honesty: Be truthful about the things you put in your profile. If you are not comfortable with the answer to a question, just say so, instead of giving the wrong answer or lying about anything. If things work out fine and you find a great date and when you start meeting, your date discovers that everything about you have been lies that will be the end of the relationship. Not to mention the damage to your reputation.
Monday, September 6, 2010
Women that Men want
Nowadays men want more from women. The notion that the woman’s place is in the kitchen is no loner valid in today’s world. Women contribute so much in today’s economy , they contribute as much as the men if not more. You’ll think men will not like that, on the contrary they do. Modern men like women who work. Men understand that our world have changed, its no longer leave it all for the men, he is the man of the house, no. Times have changed As Bob Dylan says, The times they are a changing. Ladies to get and hold the right guy for, you need to know what a man wants from you and give it to him. These are the characteristics of women that most men if not all men are looking for and will do everything to get.
1. Love: Love makes the world go round, love moves anybody even the strongest men. Men want women who would love them truly as to be able influence them through the power of love. Love is kind and is not jealous, neither is it boastful. So show love to your partner.
2. Respect: As they say respect is reciprocal, but some women don’t respect their men. Even if you are the one providing the bread, paying the house, paying the fees, lady you should give your man absolute 100% respect. Give him the respect he deserves, the one due him.
3. Communication: Men wants a woman they can communicate clearly with, not muffled communication, not misunderstood expression, or worst unexpressed feelings. You should men what you say and say what you mean. Be clear and uncomplicated in your discussions, use simple language and sentences.
4. Honesty: It is, have been and will always be the best policy. You should be totally honest with your guy especially in things pertaining to the relationship, that’ll guarantee it’ll work. When you are late from he shouldn’t have any trouble believing your story.
5. Trust: I will always tell you that without trust no relationship can last. A man wants a woman he can trust, absolutely and all times. A man needs a woman he can entrust his life, finances and family to with absolute confidence things will run smoothly even in his absence.
6. Independent: Of course a man wants to feel that he is there for your security and independence, but you have to be independent in certain areas, it really turns them on. When you ask for money to buy every single thing, he likes that. Imagine asking for money to buy a hanky or head tie.
7. Emotionally balance: Of course this is obvious, that way the man will feel more at ease e with you. Don’t be a nagging woman; no man likes a nagging woman. A man doesn’t want to be manipulated into a relationship. Don’t use tears, sex or too much talking to get him to do things for you. It doesn’t show your emotional maturity.
8. Intelligent: By this I don’t en you should get a PhD or your man to find you attractive. No that’s not what I’m talking about. I men someone is proactive, reliable, dynamic and creative. The days of the sole provider are gone. Now a man wants his woman to be as responsible as him.
9. Caring: Every woman should be caring, that is one of our great qualities as women. Men are caring at times especially when they want something (ok maybe not) but they need a woman who can show understanding and support to him every time.
10. Beautiful. Now isn’t that obvious. Ok before you say aha don’t buy that form for miss world yet, you might not win. Come on, you have to slim down real well; I hear some undergo surgery and remove ribs to look the right size for the competition ehew! I’m sure your man likes you the way you are. Moreover I’m talking of inner beauty. Again you try and maintain your beauty.
Ladies that’s really all it takes to attract and hold the right guy.
1. Love: Love makes the world go round, love moves anybody even the strongest men. Men want women who would love them truly as to be able influence them through the power of love. Love is kind and is not jealous, neither is it boastful. So show love to your partner.
2. Respect: As they say respect is reciprocal, but some women don’t respect their men. Even if you are the one providing the bread, paying the house, paying the fees, lady you should give your man absolute 100% respect. Give him the respect he deserves, the one due him.
3. Communication: Men wants a woman they can communicate clearly with, not muffled communication, not misunderstood expression, or worst unexpressed feelings. You should men what you say and say what you mean. Be clear and uncomplicated in your discussions, use simple language and sentences.
4. Honesty: It is, have been and will always be the best policy. You should be totally honest with your guy especially in things pertaining to the relationship, that’ll guarantee it’ll work. When you are late from he shouldn’t have any trouble believing your story.
5. Trust: I will always tell you that without trust no relationship can last. A man wants a woman he can trust, absolutely and all times. A man needs a woman he can entrust his life, finances and family to with absolute confidence things will run smoothly even in his absence.
6. Independent: Of course a man wants to feel that he is there for your security and independence, but you have to be independent in certain areas, it really turns them on. When you ask for money to buy every single thing, he likes that. Imagine asking for money to buy a hanky or head tie.
7. Emotionally balance: Of course this is obvious, that way the man will feel more at ease e with you. Don’t be a nagging woman; no man likes a nagging woman. A man doesn’t want to be manipulated into a relationship. Don’t use tears, sex or too much talking to get him to do things for you. It doesn’t show your emotional maturity.
8. Intelligent: By this I don’t en you should get a PhD or your man to find you attractive. No that’s not what I’m talking about. I men someone is proactive, reliable, dynamic and creative. The days of the sole provider are gone. Now a man wants his woman to be as responsible as him.
9. Caring: Every woman should be caring, that is one of our great qualities as women. Men are caring at times especially when they want something (ok maybe not) but they need a woman who can show understanding and support to him every time.
10. Beautiful. Now isn’t that obvious. Ok before you say aha don’t buy that form for miss world yet, you might not win. Come on, you have to slim down real well; I hear some undergo surgery and remove ribs to look the right size for the competition ehew! I’m sure your man likes you the way you are. Moreover I’m talking of inner beauty. Again you try and maintain your beauty.
Ladies that’s really all it takes to attract and hold the right guy.
Friday, August 20, 2010
The Encyclopedia of Dating
These are the ABC of dating, that is words related to dating and relationship. Feel free to add to the list.
A.Attraction
B.Baby
C.Cuddling
D.Desire
E.Eros
F.Flirt
G.Girl, Guy
H.Heart
I.Image
J.Joy
K.Kindhearted
L.Love
M.Men
P. Passion
R. Relationship
S. Smile
V. Virtual date
W. Women
A.Attraction
B.Baby
C.Cuddling
D.Desire
E.Eros
F.Flirt
G.Girl, Guy
H.Heart
I.Image
J.Joy
K.Kindhearted
L.Love
M.Men
P. Passion
R. Relationship
S. Smile
V. Virtual date
W. Women
Friday, August 6, 2010
7 Essentials Rules for Dating
Dating is a very serious game. It shouldn’t be taken lightly if it is to work out fine. Therefore there are some rules that will be taken into consideration while dating. For both sexes there are certain ways of behaving before and during the date. Here are some of the rules to keep in mind while dating.
1 The most effective way to introduce yourself is to be respectful and courteous. Keep your introduction tasteful. If that person is not interested, don’t beg linger or be insulting. Rather make a quick and graceful exit and move on.
2 Take the initiative and join a singles network. Chatting with fellow singles is a great way that people use to bring forth information about themselves and you can find someone with views, objectives and values similar or nearly similar to yours.
3 If you are in virtual dating-that is internet dating, you have to protect yourself and your privacy by not giving out personal information. Ok this could lead a cyber stalker to your door. Use your intuition and check references before agreeing to meet the person face to face. Always follow your gut instinct about a person.
4 When meeting with a date, meet in a public place. The place should be cozy enough for the two of you to talk. If you can, take your own car and don’t reveal all of your business on the first date. Law enforcements official suggest that you tell someone else where you are going and who you are meeting.
5 If you ask for the date, you should pick the tab. In the past, it was assumed that the guy always pay for the date. But today, things are quite different. Whoever asks for the date should also pick the tab. Some experts say a guy should pay for the first date regardless but after that anyone can pay.
6 If the relationship is getting serious, check and exchange different information. Tell the truth and ask about how many sexual partners he or she has. Not the details but you have to take precautions to avoid the risks of contacting diseases.
7 Lastly be you. Yes be yourself. Be consistent and honest about your intentions. Keep a positive attitudes, have a good outlook in life. And if you happen upon a dud date, don’t despair, just brush and get back into the groove.
1 The most effective way to introduce yourself is to be respectful and courteous. Keep your introduction tasteful. If that person is not interested, don’t beg linger or be insulting. Rather make a quick and graceful exit and move on.
2 Take the initiative and join a singles network. Chatting with fellow singles is a great way that people use to bring forth information about themselves and you can find someone with views, objectives and values similar or nearly similar to yours.
3 If you are in virtual dating-that is internet dating, you have to protect yourself and your privacy by not giving out personal information. Ok this could lead a cyber stalker to your door. Use your intuition and check references before agreeing to meet the person face to face. Always follow your gut instinct about a person.
4 When meeting with a date, meet in a public place. The place should be cozy enough for the two of you to talk. If you can, take your own car and don’t reveal all of your business on the first date. Law enforcements official suggest that you tell someone else where you are going and who you are meeting.
5 If you ask for the date, you should pick the tab. In the past, it was assumed that the guy always pay for the date. But today, things are quite different. Whoever asks for the date should also pick the tab. Some experts say a guy should pay for the first date regardless but after that anyone can pay.
6 If the relationship is getting serious, check and exchange different information. Tell the truth and ask about how many sexual partners he or she has. Not the details but you have to take precautions to avoid the risks of contacting diseases.
7 Lastly be you. Yes be yourself. Be consistent and honest about your intentions. Keep a positive attitudes, have a good outlook in life. And if you happen upon a dud date, don’t despair, just brush and get back into the groove.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
5 ways to get the best out of your relationship
To get the best out of any relationship is not very difficult. It requires time and attention to do it. It’s not difficult at all. These five tips will help you in any relationship you are in. You will get the best out of it whether it is in the family or office. You will be a better colleague, better husband, better wife, better mother, better father, better brother, better sister, better daughter and son. But especially those in romantic relationship it is okay these five qualities will go a long way to help you get the best out of that relationship. The five things you need are:
1. Love: I always maintain that love is the ultimate. With love anything is possible. Everybody likes to be loved and respected. So if you show love to your partner in the relationship the relationship will succeed.
2. Care: When you care a lot about your partner it will show. Your partner will in turn love you and care for you. As they say one good turn deserves another. Surprising your partner especially during special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries go a long way to show that you really care.
3. Attention: Knowing when your partner is not feeling well, is moody, or depressed shows you are paying a lot of attention to your partner. This will in turn be reciprocated by your partner. Buying gifts, cards and flowers for your partner will mean a lot to him or her.
4. Trust: Trust is a very essential element of any relationship. Without trust in any relationship, that relationship will not survive at all. Don’t cross-check every detail about your mate. Don’t go searching his or her emails or text messages, it creates suspicion and can only lead to chaos.
5. Understanding: You need to understand your partner and give him or her whatever he or she wants. Give your partner the support he or she wants whether in their jobs or school and you’ll be appreciates. Give your partner all the support he or she wants.
1. Love: I always maintain that love is the ultimate. With love anything is possible. Everybody likes to be loved and respected. So if you show love to your partner in the relationship the relationship will succeed.
2. Care: When you care a lot about your partner it will show. Your partner will in turn love you and care for you. As they say one good turn deserves another. Surprising your partner especially during special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries go a long way to show that you really care.
3. Attention: Knowing when your partner is not feeling well, is moody, or depressed shows you are paying a lot of attention to your partner. This will in turn be reciprocated by your partner. Buying gifts, cards and flowers for your partner will mean a lot to him or her.
4. Trust: Trust is a very essential element of any relationship. Without trust in any relationship, that relationship will not survive at all. Don’t cross-check every detail about your mate. Don’t go searching his or her emails or text messages, it creates suspicion and can only lead to chaos.
5. Understanding: You need to understand your partner and give him or her whatever he or she wants. Give your partner the support he or she wants whether in their jobs or school and you’ll be appreciates. Give your partner all the support he or she wants.
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Why Men Can't Win
A reply from the men folk to their ladies counterpart. This is a continuation of the last article on this page. Enjoy
WELL, MEN CAN’T WIN
If you work too hard, there never time for her
If you don’t work hard enough, you are good-for-nothing;
If you has a boring job with low pay, its exploitation
If you do, you should find something better.
If you get a promotion ahead of her, its favoritism
If she does, its equal opportunity;
If you mention how nice she looks, its sexual harassment
If you keep quiet, its male indifference.
If you cry, you are a wimp
If you don’t, you are insensitive;
If you make a decision without consulting her, you are a chauvinist;
If she does without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman
If you’re proud of your achievements, you’re an egotist
If you’re not, you’re not ambitious;
If she has a headache, she’s tired
If you do, you don’t love her anymore.
What do you think?
WELL, MEN CAN’T WIN
If you work too hard, there never time for her
If you don’t work hard enough, you are good-for-nothing;
If you has a boring job with low pay, its exploitation
If you do, you should find something better.
If you get a promotion ahead of her, its favoritism
If she does, its equal opportunity;
If you mention how nice she looks, its sexual harassment
If you keep quiet, its male indifference.
If you cry, you are a wimp
If you don’t, you are insensitive;
If you make a decision without consulting her, you are a chauvinist;
If she does without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman
If you’re proud of your achievements, you’re an egotist
If you’re not, you’re not ambitious;
If she has a headache, she’s tired
If you do, you don’t love her anymore.
What do you think?
Monday, June 7, 2010
It's a Man's World
A friend sent me the article below and I thought of sharing it with you. Guys, is it true. What do think ladies? Post your comments below the article or write me at ugojules@gmail.com
If you treat him nicely, he says you are in love with him
If you don’t, he says you are proud;
If you dress nicely, he says you are trying to lure
If you don’t, he says you are old-fashioned.
If you argue with him, he says you are stubborn
If keep quiet, he says you have no brains;
If you are smarter than him, he’ll lose face
If he’s smarter than you, he is great.
If you don’t love him, he tries to possess you
If you love him, he will try to live you;
If you don’t make love with him, he says you don’t love him
If you do, he says you are cheap.
If you tell him your problem, he says you are troublesome
If you don’t, you don’t trust him;
If you scold him, you are like a nanny to him
If he scolds you, he cares for you.
If you break your promise, you cannot be trusted
If he breaks his, he’s forced to do so;
If you smoke, you are a bad girl
If he smokes, he is a gentleman.
If you do well in your exams, he says it’s luck
If he does well, it’s brain;
If hurt him, you are cruel
If he hurts you, you are too sensitive.
If you send this to guys, they’ll swear that it’s not true
If you don’t, they say you are selfish.
If you treat him nicely, he says you are in love with him
If you don’t, he says you are proud;
If you dress nicely, he says you are trying to lure
If you don’t, he says you are old-fashioned.
If you argue with him, he says you are stubborn
If keep quiet, he says you have no brains;
If you are smarter than him, he’ll lose face
If he’s smarter than you, he is great.
If you don’t love him, he tries to possess you
If you love him, he will try to live you;
If you don’t make love with him, he says you don’t love him
If you do, he says you are cheap.
If you tell him your problem, he says you are troublesome
If you don’t, you don’t trust him;
If you scold him, you are like a nanny to him
If he scolds you, he cares for you.
If you break your promise, you cannot be trusted
If he breaks his, he’s forced to do so;
If you smoke, you are a bad girl
If he smokes, he is a gentleman.
If you do well in your exams, he says it’s luck
If he does well, it’s brain;
If hurt him, you are cruel
If he hurts you, you are too sensitive.
If you send this to guys, they’ll swear that it’s not true
If you don’t, they say you are selfish.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
How to Easily Get Any Girl to Like and Want You? 7 Vital Tips Every Guy Should Read Right Away
. Be yourself:
There is nothing more confusing to a girl than to try and figure out whom the real you are. It is okay to dust yourself off and polish yourself up from time to time but forget the character makeover. If you want her to believe you have a lot going on, be sure you do. The true you will come out at some point in time and you will blow whatever measure of trust you have built up with this girl.
2. Be Respectful:
One of your most endearing qualities is the level of respect you show for the girl you are interested in. Tease her but don't be obnoxious about it. Don't call her derogatory names to show how macho you are and don't belittle her in front of your or her friends. You are trying to attract not detract.
3. Show Interest In Her:
It's fun to talk about yourself but when trying to get a girl to like you, keep the self talk to a minimum and ask about her. Your ulterior motive is to find commonalities you can talk about and share as well as what type of buttons she has. Give her the floor to reveal herself and if she is off the same mindset as you her ulterior motive will be to find out about you and she will give you the floor to talk about yourself.
4. Look for Commonalities:
Part of attracting a girl is having common things to share. It gives the two of you a clicking point. Be willing to explore her interests even if they are not yours. In return, she will be willing to explore your interests, no matter what they are.
5. Be Sincere:
Didn't Conrad Birdie sing about that in the movie "Bye, Bye Birdie?" Insincerity is like Swiss cheese. It is full of holes and anyone can see right through it. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Just don't be mean when you say it.
6. Accentuate Your Positives :
Everyone has elements about them that are better than others. Find your best assets and show them off in an unassuming manner. Put them on display for her to admire. Show her you have the right stuff, baby.
7. Be Full of Surprises:
The unexpected can sometimes return the expected. The element of surprise will sometimes eliminate the expected expectation. An impromptu picnic in the park might result in some hay play later on. A surprise once in a while will show you are thoughtful and considerate and are putting her first. If you throw in a surprise to often, it becomes the expected.
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=James_Apollo
There is nothing more confusing to a girl than to try and figure out whom the real you are. It is okay to dust yourself off and polish yourself up from time to time but forget the character makeover. If you want her to believe you have a lot going on, be sure you do. The true you will come out at some point in time and you will blow whatever measure of trust you have built up with this girl.
2. Be Respectful:
One of your most endearing qualities is the level of respect you show for the girl you are interested in. Tease her but don't be obnoxious about it. Don't call her derogatory names to show how macho you are and don't belittle her in front of your or her friends. You are trying to attract not detract.
3. Show Interest In Her:
It's fun to talk about yourself but when trying to get a girl to like you, keep the self talk to a minimum and ask about her. Your ulterior motive is to find commonalities you can talk about and share as well as what type of buttons she has. Give her the floor to reveal herself and if she is off the same mindset as you her ulterior motive will be to find out about you and she will give you the floor to talk about yourself.
4. Look for Commonalities:
Part of attracting a girl is having common things to share. It gives the two of you a clicking point. Be willing to explore her interests even if they are not yours. In return, she will be willing to explore your interests, no matter what they are.
5. Be Sincere:
Didn't Conrad Birdie sing about that in the movie "Bye, Bye Birdie?" Insincerity is like Swiss cheese. It is full of holes and anyone can see right through it. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Just don't be mean when you say it.
6. Accentuate Your Positives :
Everyone has elements about them that are better than others. Find your best assets and show them off in an unassuming manner. Put them on display for her to admire. Show her you have the right stuff, baby.
7. Be Full of Surprises:
The unexpected can sometimes return the expected. The element of surprise will sometimes eliminate the expected expectation. An impromptu picnic in the park might result in some hay play later on. A surprise once in a while will show you are thoughtful and considerate and are putting her first. If you throw in a surprise to often, it becomes the expected.
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=James_Apollo
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Is it Love Or Lust
It can be difficult to determine if what you are feeling for your loved one is actually love or lust. Many times a deep infatuation at the beginning of a relationship will feel like the real thing. But as time moves on, you find all you were looking for is different that what is actually there. Society at times will lead us to believe in the concept of love at first sight. What we feel at the onset of a relationship is actually nothing more than lust.
But what is lust? Well, in general lust is a physical attraction we have to another person that leads our desires to be with them. Often it stems for only physical portions. However, on a rare occurrence we can lust after someone for the knowledge that they posses. It is important to understand that when you lust after someone you are not necessarily lusting sex. Remember that lust is a physical attraction and nothing more. Having a sexual need is something very different.
Love in turn is deeper than a physical level. Often you will find that they two can be combined for the ultimate experience. When you love someone, you want what is truly in their best interest. It is a positive experience, where you begin to do what you can to help improve another persons life. You do not seek out the fights, and cause drama. If you have mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or even spite, what you are feeling is a copycat version of love. This in time will pass. When you love someone, it is with out restrictions. You want to see them as happy as they can be.
But what you are feeling is it love or lust. No one can tell you that for sure. When it comes from the heart, and it is genuine, there is a strong chance you have love. Step back from your relationship and answer the following. When you look over what you do for your partner, are you doing it to make them feel great, or because you them to give back to you?
Remember, lust and love are both unique emotions. While one is a physical desire the other is based on an emotional level. Trust your heart, and if it is right, things will fall into place. Be true to yourself, and love you first and foremost.
Jason has been in the business of dealing with people in their darkest hours for over 20 years. He runs a great blog with his life long partner and love of his life Paige. Don't let the title Get Ex Back mislead you. In addition to helping people get the love of their life back, the site is packed with insightful tips on making relationships work in the real world!
One of his latest posts can be found here Relationship Advice
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jason_Walton
But what is lust? Well, in general lust is a physical attraction we have to another person that leads our desires to be with them. Often it stems for only physical portions. However, on a rare occurrence we can lust after someone for the knowledge that they posses. It is important to understand that when you lust after someone you are not necessarily lusting sex. Remember that lust is a physical attraction and nothing more. Having a sexual need is something very different.
Love in turn is deeper than a physical level. Often you will find that they two can be combined for the ultimate experience. When you love someone, you want what is truly in their best interest. It is a positive experience, where you begin to do what you can to help improve another persons life. You do not seek out the fights, and cause drama. If you have mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or even spite, what you are feeling is a copycat version of love. This in time will pass. When you love someone, it is with out restrictions. You want to see them as happy as they can be.
But what you are feeling is it love or lust. No one can tell you that for sure. When it comes from the heart, and it is genuine, there is a strong chance you have love. Step back from your relationship and answer the following. When you look over what you do for your partner, are you doing it to make them feel great, or because you them to give back to you?
Remember, lust and love are both unique emotions. While one is a physical desire the other is based on an emotional level. Trust your heart, and if it is right, things will fall into place. Be true to yourself, and love you first and foremost.
Jason has been in the business of dealing with people in their darkest hours for over 20 years. He runs a great blog with his life long partner and love of his life Paige. Don't let the title Get Ex Back mislead you. In addition to helping people get the love of their life back, the site is packed with insightful tips on making relationships work in the real world!
One of his latest posts can be found here Relationship Advice
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jason_Walton
Saturday, May 8, 2010
How to know if she likes you –10 sure ways
You’ve met this beautiful girl and you wondering if you should take the plunge. This is because you don’t want to make a fool of yourself when you ask her for a date. Here are 10 signs that will tell you yes, go ahead and ask her out.
1 She makes eye contact: When she is always looking at you, it shows that she is interested in you. You know that a girl really like you by the look in her eyes, the frequency and constancy of her looks towards you.
2 She calls you for homework... a lot!!: This is a definite sign that she is into you. She needs your help in almost anything she is doing, whether it’s simple repairs at home or at the work place, with her homework or anything else.
3 She makes some movement while talking to you: Like she flips her hair when she's talking to you, she touches your arm when she talks to you; she is trying to tell you something with those actions.
4 She smiles at you: If a girl talks to you with a big smile, it is a gooood sign that she is waiting for you to take the plunge. Oh Yes, the twinkle in her eyes when she smiles at you is a good sign. Boy has she got a woah smile, and that smile is just for you.
5 She appreciates your kind of friends: If your girl likes and approves of your friends (not the bad ones) she’s really telling you she likes and approve of you. So what are you waiting for?
6 She is always around you: When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends, she's almost always next to you. She happens to be in your neighbourhood at a certain time, she’s in your way as you are going for lunch. She likes you man.
7 She knows your WHOLE family's names (including your dog): That’s not all she even knows stuff about you like your birthday, and favourite color, screen name, favourite food, favourite band, favourite team, what music you like and
favourite sport.
8 Her friends know you: If the friends of the girl you are thinking of know most things about you, it can only mean that she’s been talking about you a lot to her friends. And that’s because she really likes you.
9 She is a friend: She advises to concentrate on your studies, work hard at your job, don’t do drugs, smoking is not good for your health and stuff like that. If she’s talking like this she cares about you and wants to really be with you.
10 She calls you: Of course she is always calling you, sometimes just to say hi. She calls to find out how you are doing, how was school today or how’s work if you are working. But she is always calling. Maybe you don’t even remember giving her your number but you appreciate the call nonetheless.
Ok, so you are seeing all these signs in a girl you feel strongly about and you are wondering whether… Stop reading, grab that phone and call her. She’s definitely into you and jumps at the idea of a date with you. So make that move today. Ta ra.
1 She makes eye contact: When she is always looking at you, it shows that she is interested in you. You know that a girl really like you by the look in her eyes, the frequency and constancy of her looks towards you.
2 She calls you for homework... a lot!!: This is a definite sign that she is into you. She needs your help in almost anything she is doing, whether it’s simple repairs at home or at the work place, with her homework or anything else.
3 She makes some movement while talking to you: Like she flips her hair when she's talking to you, she touches your arm when she talks to you; she is trying to tell you something with those actions.
4 She smiles at you: If a girl talks to you with a big smile, it is a gooood sign that she is waiting for you to take the plunge. Oh Yes, the twinkle in her eyes when she smiles at you is a good sign. Boy has she got a woah smile, and that smile is just for you.
5 She appreciates your kind of friends: If your girl likes and approves of your friends (not the bad ones) she’s really telling you she likes and approve of you. So what are you waiting for?
6 She is always around you: When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends, she's almost always next to you. She happens to be in your neighbourhood at a certain time, she’s in your way as you are going for lunch. She likes you man.
7 She knows your WHOLE family's names (including your dog): That’s not all she even knows stuff about you like your birthday, and favourite color, screen name, favourite food, favourite band, favourite team, what music you like and
favourite sport.
8 Her friends know you: If the friends of the girl you are thinking of know most things about you, it can only mean that she’s been talking about you a lot to her friends. And that’s because she really likes you.
9 She is a friend: She advises to concentrate on your studies, work hard at your job, don’t do drugs, smoking is not good for your health and stuff like that. If she’s talking like this she cares about you and wants to really be with you.
10 She calls you: Of course she is always calling you, sometimes just to say hi. She calls to find out how you are doing, how was school today or how’s work if you are working. But she is always calling. Maybe you don’t even remember giving her your number but you appreciate the call nonetheless.
Ok, so you are seeing all these signs in a girl you feel strongly about and you are wondering whether… Stop reading, grab that phone and call her. She’s definitely into you and jumps at the idea of a date with you. So make that move today. Ta ra.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
How to know if he likes you –10 sure ways
There’s this hot guy in school, office, church or street that’s always starring at you. You don’t know if he really likes you. Don’t worry, use these signs below to be sure whether he really likes you or you were blocking his view when he was looking at something behind you? Here are ten sure ways to know.
1 He calls you: If the guy makes effort to get your number and your address, he’s a good candidate. When he now goes further to call you to find out how you are doing, he likes you. Sometimes he calls you to talk about nothing at all. When he goes further to visit you at home, he does like you.
2 He is there for you: If that guy is always there when you need him; you know always magically appearing down the street, when you just needed a hand to help you lift up that heavy burden, it is a good sign that he is into you. If you keep running into him at office corridors or outside you’re your classroom, he likes you.
3 He is a friend. He helps you solves problem at work, helps with your homework; forget your jacket? You can wear his; these are clear signs that he is interested in you. You can talk to him about a lot of stuff and he listens. A good sign.
4 Encourages you in your work: Whether it’s your school work, your Sunday school assignment or things at your place of work. He is always encouraging to be at your best he really likes you.
5 He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation: Guys usually don’t have good memory for little details. So when he makes effort to remember to give you presents, especially on your birthdays and any other day special to you; he’s into you.
6 You were invited by him to a group outing: Just because he always wants to be where you are, he wants to be seen with you, he wants to be near you. It’s a clear sign that he likes you.
7 He tells someone: If a guy tells his friends and maybe his sister or brother about you, he is very interested in you.
He wants to know more about you so he asks other people who you are and where you're from. Again when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
8 The way he looks at you: He gives you a look that totally betrays his calm exterior. When he gives you a look that is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. That look is definitely of an interested person. And since he is looking at you, he is interested in you.
9 When he talks: When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, that’s a yes. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No."
10 He makes reasons to touch you: And I don't mean sexually. I mean casually-but-often. He puts his hand on your back to help guide you into the movie theater. He brushes a strand of hair out of your face. His foot "just happens" to touch yours under the table at a restaurant. He tells you that you have dirt on your nose when you know you don't. He rests his hand on your shoulder for no reason at all. Oh, boy. Does he ever like you!
When you see seven to eight of the above signs in that guy, make it easy on him when he musters the courage to ask you out. Or you can initiate the outing; you can tell him you really like him and would like to go out with him.
1 He calls you: If the guy makes effort to get your number and your address, he’s a good candidate. When he now goes further to call you to find out how you are doing, he likes you. Sometimes he calls you to talk about nothing at all. When he goes further to visit you at home, he does like you.
2 He is there for you: If that guy is always there when you need him; you know always magically appearing down the street, when you just needed a hand to help you lift up that heavy burden, it is a good sign that he is into you. If you keep running into him at office corridors or outside you’re your classroom, he likes you.
3 He is a friend. He helps you solves problem at work, helps with your homework; forget your jacket? You can wear his; these are clear signs that he is interested in you. You can talk to him about a lot of stuff and he listens. A good sign.
4 Encourages you in your work: Whether it’s your school work, your Sunday school assignment or things at your place of work. He is always encouraging to be at your best he really likes you.
5 He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation: Guys usually don’t have good memory for little details. So when he makes effort to remember to give you presents, especially on your birthdays and any other day special to you; he’s into you.
6 You were invited by him to a group outing: Just because he always wants to be where you are, he wants to be seen with you, he wants to be near you. It’s a clear sign that he likes you.
7 He tells someone: If a guy tells his friends and maybe his sister or brother about you, he is very interested in you.
He wants to know more about you so he asks other people who you are and where you're from. Again when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
8 The way he looks at you: He gives you a look that totally betrays his calm exterior. When he gives you a look that is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. That look is definitely of an interested person. And since he is looking at you, he is interested in you.
9 When he talks: When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, that’s a yes. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No."
10 He makes reasons to touch you: And I don't mean sexually. I mean casually-but-often. He puts his hand on your back to help guide you into the movie theater. He brushes a strand of hair out of your face. His foot "just happens" to touch yours under the table at a restaurant. He tells you that you have dirt on your nose when you know you don't. He rests his hand on your shoulder for no reason at all. Oh, boy. Does he ever like you!
When you see seven to eight of the above signs in that guy, make it easy on him when he musters the courage to ask you out. Or you can initiate the outing; you can tell him you really like him and would like to go out with him.
Friday, April 23, 2010
The Top Four Things Needed to Have a Healthy and Successful Relationship
If you have a strong and healthy relationship then you are going to succeed better in all areas of your life. Good relationships are the glue that helps you in life by bonding you to other people in your life and giving you more confidence in yourself. If you have a poor relationship it can equally affect you in a negative way. There are some simple pieces of advice that you should follow if you want to ensure that you have a healthy relationship.
There are four great things that are necessary for you to have a healthy and successful relationship.
1. The number one thing that you should remember when trying to have a healthy relationship is that you need to make sure that you are staying involved with your partner and his or her life. There is such a thing as too much peaceful coexistence. You may feel that you have a great life together but without good communication and knowing what is going on your partner's life, you will find that your relationship is not as healthy as you might think.
2. If you want to get through conflict then you need to make sure that you feel safe in expressing how you feel no matter if you disagree or not. This means that you should never feel afraid of your partner or afraid to tell him about the things that you disagree with. This should be a natural flow of communication between the two of you.
3. You may think that having outside relationships and lives that are separate from each other would be harmful to your relationship. However in fact the opposite is very true for this one. If you do not have outside interests and a life apart from one another then it is highly unlikely that your relationship will really work. You need some time apart and some interests that are your own to have a successful relationship.
4. The final and perhaps most important thing to remember overall with having a healthy and successful relationship is that you need to be able to communicate and have good communication skills. You will need to make sure that you talk about the things in life that are important. You should discuss everything and learn how to compromise to reach an agreement in all areas of life.
By understanding these four simple things you can ensure that you will have a life of bliss and happiness together.
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Monday, April 12, 2010
10 Great Ways to find a Date
Have you just come out of a relationship and want to enter another one but you don’t know where to start? Maybe you are new to the world of dating and want to get a boyfriend or girlfriend. There are many ways to find a good date. Below are 10 sure ways that will not fail you. Choose any one you want and work hard at it and go get yourself a great date.
1. Have a great attitude: A good attitude is the key to everything. You have to have a good attitude about what are doing, you have to believe that you are going to succeed in finding that great you share life with. It is important that you search for a date with this attitude.
2. Believe in yourself: You must believe in yourself for you to succeed in anything you are engaged in, including dating. Believe that are a good person and you will get a good person for your date because you deserve good things.
3. Take action: Nothing moves unless you move. Action is the key to accomplishment. Take action by going out. A lot of singles make the mistake staying at home waiting the phone to ring. Well unless you are a great movie or sports star, it doesn’t work that way.
4. Go to parties: Parties are a good place to find dates. This is because many go their especially at weekends to unwind after the week’s hard work.
5. Attend social functions: There are many social functions where you meet the person of your dreams. Places like seminars, workshops, first time home buyers, auctions, meetings, etc.
6. Seize every opportunity: You should make use of every opportunity. Anywhere you are make contacts. Talk to friends, family members, and colleagues in the office, people at your workplace or market, relatives. Ask them if they know of anyone that might be good for you.
7. Network: Oh yes! You have to network extensively. Be nice to people you meet on the street and everywhere. Greet people with a smile and after their friends, families, work, health, etc.
8. Attend sports games: This is another great place to meet. Attend sporting events like football matches, basketball, hockey, baseball matches. You are sure to meet nice at those places.
9. Carry name cards: It really works. Make a card pretty card with your and telephone number and share it to people at every occasion. You can also give it your friends to share for you.
10. Make use of Internet: The internet is the biggest thing now. You can do many things on the internet. You can go to school and study any course of your choice there. You can buy and sell anything there. In that way you can also find friends ditto dates there. It is very easy. There are many dating websites around like eharmony.com, hethatfindeth.net, etc. They are all free to join. But to hook you up with the person who matches your requirements, some websites require a fee. So go to the sites and search for the one that will give you what you want.
1. Have a great attitude: A good attitude is the key to everything. You have to have a good attitude about what are doing, you have to believe that you are going to succeed in finding that great you share life with. It is important that you search for a date with this attitude.
2. Believe in yourself: You must believe in yourself for you to succeed in anything you are engaged in, including dating. Believe that are a good person and you will get a good person for your date because you deserve good things.
3. Take action: Nothing moves unless you move. Action is the key to accomplishment. Take action by going out. A lot of singles make the mistake staying at home waiting the phone to ring. Well unless you are a great movie or sports star, it doesn’t work that way.
4. Go to parties: Parties are a good place to find dates. This is because many go their especially at weekends to unwind after the week’s hard work.
5. Attend social functions: There are many social functions where you meet the person of your dreams. Places like seminars, workshops, first time home buyers, auctions, meetings, etc.
6. Seize every opportunity: You should make use of every opportunity. Anywhere you are make contacts. Talk to friends, family members, and colleagues in the office, people at your workplace or market, relatives. Ask them if they know of anyone that might be good for you.
7. Network: Oh yes! You have to network extensively. Be nice to people you meet on the street and everywhere. Greet people with a smile and after their friends, families, work, health, etc.
8. Attend sports games: This is another great place to meet. Attend sporting events like football matches, basketball, hockey, baseball matches. You are sure to meet nice at those places.
9. Carry name cards: It really works. Make a card pretty card with your and telephone number and share it to people at every occasion. You can also give it your friends to share for you.
10. Make use of Internet: The internet is the biggest thing now. You can do many things on the internet. You can go to school and study any course of your choice there. You can buy and sell anything there. In that way you can also find friends ditto dates there. It is very easy. There are many dating websites around like eharmony.com, hethatfindeth.net, etc. They are all free to join. But to hook you up with the person who matches your requirements, some websites require a fee. So go to the sites and search for the one that will give you what you want.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Want to Know How to Meet and Be With Your Soulmate?
So you want to know how to meet and be with your soulmate?
Most people totally misunderstand the entire concept of soulmate.
Somehow the media glamorized the idea of soulmate as people who are perfectly compatible and therefore live in perfect harmony.
Actually soulmates exists to bring out the best in each other. That result does not always happen in a supportive manner.
Sometimes a soulmate pushes all the buttons of their partner. Sometimes they are violent and dangerous to the person.
People learn what they came here to learn in all kinds of ways. Someone who mistreats you could well be your soulmate.
What? Yup. You see someone nasty, even violent, causes you to step out of your comfort zone--regardless of how uncomfortable you feel--your know zone still feels safer that the mysterious unknown.
So when you find yourself in a relationship where you get to be all you can be you may well be in that relationship with your soulmate. You really love the person you become when you are with that person.
Ah, that is the criteria for knowing when you are in love. However the person who leaves you feeling so wonderful and powerful may not be your soulmate. Determine if he or she is your soulmate by measuring your growth, your own soul's growth.
All that said, I do not mean to imply your soulmate will not be someone gentle, loving, kind--whatever you put out to the Universe as your desire. Just live with awareness of your spiritual status.
The bottom line is we are each responsible for how our world looks. That includes out degree of happiness. It is never a question of, "When I am with my soulmate I feel good and when I am not with my soulmate I feel bad." You create your happiness. You create your unhappiness.
So how do you attract your soulmate? People always find themselves attracted to people of like energy. You can only attract who you are.
So write a list of the traits of your soulmate, your desired partner. Then see which ones you need to develop yourself so you can attract someone like you.
You will attract the person you are. Always - even when you wonder how this certain person happened into your world. Sometimes we see in others parts of us we will not see in ourselves. For that reason make certain you are the person you want to be in life before sending your desire to meet your soulmate out to the Universe.
Warning: Do not neglect the above! Make sure to take this advice seriously if you want to create your world to live in happiness.
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Saturday, March 27, 2010
WE NEED US
Let’s tell the truth, we need each other in our lives. No man is an island is a time-old saying. We need each other’s support, encouragement, love, care, advice and help. We need human beings in our lives. Fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunts, husbands, wives, neighbours, colleagues, ministers, friends, enemies are very important to have around us. This is because they all contribute to shape our lives in one way or the other. For good or bad we need to have people in our lives. Whether we are feeling good or bad we have to share it with some one. As the saying goes, joy shared is doubled while sorrow shared is halved. All I’m saying is that we all need relationships in our lives.
A relationship can be good or bad. Robert Murdock says that every relationship is either a deposit or withdrawal in your life. It’s now left to you to choose whether it will be a deposit (positive) or withdrawal (negative) for you. But the fact is we need to have relationships in our lives. We need to form relationships. After all we all descended from one source, one parent – Adam & Eve. Think about it. All through there have been people you meet who made a great impact on your life. People who told you things that changed your life forever. People who gave you help- physically, financially, emotionally and otherwise, whether you know them or not. Those you told you could when you thought you couldn’t, those who told you to do it, when you didn’t have the strength, those who told you to keep on keeping on when you thought you couldn’t go on anymore.
The dictionary describes relationship as a friendship and strong emotional connection between two people. It says relationship can refer to the way people are connected and affect each other. It can also mean a similarity or connection between people. So relationship is all about associations, connections between persons. Everyday and every time we deal with we are relating with each other. So we should learn to use our relationship in a good way. We should make our relationship beneficial to us, our fellow human beings and the society at large.
A relationship can be good or bad. Robert Murdock says that every relationship is either a deposit or withdrawal in your life. It’s now left to you to choose whether it will be a deposit (positive) or withdrawal (negative) for you. But the fact is we need to have relationships in our lives. We need to form relationships. After all we all descended from one source, one parent – Adam & Eve. Think about it. All through there have been people you meet who made a great impact on your life. People who told you things that changed your life forever. People who gave you help- physically, financially, emotionally and otherwise, whether you know them or not. Those you told you could when you thought you couldn’t, those who told you to do it, when you didn’t have the strength, those who told you to keep on keeping on when you thought you couldn’t go on anymore.
The dictionary describes relationship as a friendship and strong emotional connection between two people. It says relationship can refer to the way people are connected and affect each other. It can also mean a similarity or connection between people. So relationship is all about associations, connections between persons. Everyday and every time we deal with we are relating with each other. So we should learn to use our relationship in a good way. We should make our relationship beneficial to us, our fellow human beings and the society at large.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Family Relationship Dynamics
There are many dynamics that make up a family unit. While most families have their problems not all of those problems should be dealt with behind closed doors and on your own. Many families need to reach out and ask for help when issues in their lives become to big for them to deal with. Your family relationships are the most important relationships you will develop in your lifetime as they will guide you as to what to look for in other relationships you develop later in your life.
Family counseling attempts to promote better understanding and better relationships within a family. Family counseling usually involves the whole family unit, but sometimes it can be just parts of the family as sometimes a few individuals are affected more that other members. The therapists goal is to improve the interaction and attitude between family members and help them cope with specific home situations. They aim to open the lines of communication. They normally stagger the sessions seeing the whole group in one session and then perhaps seeing each member individually in the next session.
Christian counseling shares similar ideals and objectives as secular counseling except christian counselors measure most to all of the their standards by The Bible. They believe that The Bible has a lot of guidance and wisdom to live by. So when they are counseling they integrate the bible and relevant passages to help you seeking your answers and guide you to what they believe is the proper solutions. They believe that all things in the world can be helped or saved if you turn to God and The Bible.
Problems within a marriage can be very tough to deal with. It seems many couples tend to ignore problems in their relationships until they seem like they are too late to correct. It can help a great deal to have a third party to help you point out problems you are having and potential solutions to those problems. Many couples attend therapy sessions to try to rectify their relationship. Both members of a marriage have to want to improve the relationship for the counseling to be effective.
You can use a therapist finder to locate a qualified counselor or counseling clinic in your area that will cater to your specific wants and needs. Make sure you choose a therapist you feel you can trust and confide in, and also that makes all members of your family feel comfortable as well. Be prepared to be open and honest, and make sure you bring all your concerns to the attention of the counselor.
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