5 ways to get the best out of your relationship

To get the best out of any relationship is not very difficult. It requires time and attention to do it. It’s not difficult at all. These five tips will help you in any relationship you are in. You will get the best out of it whether it is in the family or office. You will be a better colleague, better husband, better wife, better mother, better father, better brother, better sister, better daughter and son. But especially those in romantic relationship it is okay these five qualities will go a long way to help you get the best out of that relationship. The five things you need are:

1. Love: I always maintain that love is the ultimate. With love anything is possible. Everybody likes to be loved and respected. So if you show love to your partner in the relationship the relationship will succeed.

2. Care: When you care a lot about your partner it will show. Your partner will in turn love you and care for you. As they say one good turn deserves another. Surprising your partner especially during special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries go a long way to show that you really care.

3. Attention: Knowing when your partner is not feeling well, is moody, or depressed shows you are paying a lot of attention to your partner. This will in turn be reciprocated by your partner. Buying gifts, cards and flowers for your partner will mean a lot to him or her.

4. Trust: Trust is a very essential element of any relationship. Without trust in any relationship, that relationship will not survive at all. Don’t cross-check every detail about your mate. Don’t go searching his or her emails or text messages, it creates suspicion and can only lead to chaos.

5. Understanding: You need to understand your partner and give him or her whatever he or she wants. Give your partner the support he or she wants whether in their jobs or school and you’ll be appreciates. Give your partner all the support he or she wants.

Why Men Can't Win

A reply from the men folk to their ladies counterpart. This is a continuation of the last article on this page. Enjoy

WELL, MEN CAN’T WIN

If you work too hard, there never time for her
If you don’t work hard enough, you are good-for-nothing;
If you has a boring job with low pay, its exploitation
If you do, you should find something better.

If you get a promotion ahead of her, its favoritism
If she does, its equal opportunity;
If you mention how nice she looks, its sexual harassment
If you keep quiet, its male indifference.

If you cry, you are a wimp
If you don’t, you are insensitive;
If you make a decision without consulting her, you are a chauvinist;
If she does without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman

If you’re proud of your achievements, you’re an egotist
If you’re not, you’re not ambitious;
If she has a headache, she’s tired
If you do, you don’t love her anymore.

What do you think?