Money in Relationship, huh?

Someone commented about my last article in a forum that got me thinking. It was the article about attracting women, remember. Check the last article, the title was 4 simple ways of attracting women. Well the friend in the forum mentioned that a man’s purse or pocket in this case is equally important. That it should even be the first.

Well I believe that there should be money in every relationship. I mean money solves a lot of problems in life. Men nowadays are getting married to women who are capable financially. Most ask this question at the beginning of a relationship - where she is working?

They say that way the girl won’t be a liability but an asset. Anyway I subscribe to the wife having something to do. Even if she is selling in a supermarket. Apart from the monetary gains to the family, it keeps her busy, makes her productive and other things. But that is the topic of another discussion.

Today we are focusing on how important money is to a relationship, lets say a new one. Guy just met girl. Should the woman check out the guy’s bank account, his assets, the blimp on him, his ride and mansion before saying yes. Should the man trace the girls family to be sure if her father is the head of a large conglomerate before he approaches her.

My take is that money is important in a relationship. Our main concern is how much importance should we attach to it? You can just leave your comments below. I like to hear what you think about this topic.

Meanwhile if you are planning to be rich, very rich, wealthy, it is not bad thing. In fact I encourage you, I say to anyone that wants to can be rich, it is a matter of proper monetary habits. You reduce your expenses, save some, invest it and you’ll be rich. There are two goods I now that can teach you how to do that. You can get it at http://www.moneyinayear.com/sq.html

How to make a Woman fall Madly in Love with you

I know you are probably wondering where your love life is going to as you have no woman in your life right now and you don’t know how to get one to like you, much less fall madly in love with you. Well I am here to tell you that it is easy to attract women.

First though you have to change your thinking about women. Yes it is your stereotypical thinking about women that is holding you from finding a way to capturing them. Women are difficult. I hear that all the time. And I tell you speaking from a woman’s point of view, it’s not true. Women are not difficult at all. You men stand at a distance and pass judgment on the womenfolk without giving them a chance to prove themselves.

Secondly change your thinking about yourself I mean your attitude about yourself. Stop the thinking pattern that you are unlucky with women. I tell you with that kind of thinking it will be difficult to attract any woman. So believe that you are a good-looking nice guy who can attract any woman he wants in his life.

Women are really simple creatures. They are fun to be with. They make great friends. They are loving, creative and interesting. That’s why they are mothers, sisters and wives. Therefore stop thinking that some women are off limits, you can’t just get close them tor talk to them not to talk of asking them out.

Thirdly look good. Don’t tell your self you are the ugliest person in the universe; remember number 2 above, that’s not a good attitude. Dress well, now I don’t mean buy all expensive clothes in the supermarket beside your house.
No that’s not what I mean. It is just that you are addressed the way you dress. Your dressing goes a long way to tell your story in the eyes of people particularly the opposite sex. In effect you have to look good, get a hair cut, and put on some nice clothes and you are on.

Fourth, get the required knowledge, the right words to say, the expressions, right here. Once you as a man understand all these things about a woman, then it would very to get them to fall in love with you. I assure you that you will get any woman you want, you are even sure of being laid if you do this.

It takes two to Tango

Still on that programme , Tinsel (I love this soap). Continuing from the last scene here the man Regi said that it takes two to tango, it is so true. Remember he rebuked the waiter and said there are always two sides to every story. I agree with him. It takes two tango. The pregnant PA was as much at fault as him. No one used each other here, both are to blame for anything that occurs. Bothe should bear the full consequences and they are, believe me but the innocent bystander Regi’s wife is also suffering.
I brought this up because I hear a lot stories sometimes, when advertisity occurs, instead the people involved trying to solve the problem, they start looking for a scape goat. They look for whom to blame for their misfortune, forgetting that they were involved from the beginning. If a young lady gets pregnant for instance and assuming she comes from a rich home her father will call the police to arrest and detain the boy responsible instead of calling his daughter and hearing from her. The boy did not rape his daughter, they were friends, just that the father could not stomach the thought of a poor boy impregnating his precious daughter.
Or a situation a lady gets pregnant for a man and he abandons her. First he asks her whether she was not on pills and then he asks if he is the only boyfriend she has. Just because he feels that he's not ready for marriage, then he runs away and abandons the poor girl to suffer alone.
It is not good, it’s very bad. Remember the beginning, when things were moving on fine between you both. Now that things have turned sour both of you should sort it together.
Anyway over to tinsel, Regi answered the question of yesterday with my answers. The whole 3 of them, can you believe it. I don’t want to say it but I told you so. Anyway he’s having this entire problem because he is not an alpha male. Want to know who is an alpha male, want to be one, send me an email at ugojules@gmail.com with the subject line; free ebook-alpha male and I will send you the free ebook on how to be an alpha.
Till next time. You know I always love your comments.

Loving two at a Time

I watched my favorite soap opera on tv yesterday called Tinsel. After today’s edition , an argument of sorts ensued about the last scene. It goes like this. A married man, Regi had an affair with his PA who got pregnant. He was at a bar discussing what to do with her with the lady’s friend, because of the pregnant woman’s mental health problem.
Regi overheard a waiter giving advice to young man about his friend’s girlfriend. The young man said his best friend is dating a mentally deranged girl and wondered what to tell him, and the waiter (the love doctor of the show) advised him to tell his friend to run for his dear life.
Now this man, Reginald called him over and said it was insensitive and cruel, adding that there were two sides to every story; which made his drinking partner to observe that he was still in love with his pregnant mistress. It is an interesting soap, so check your DSTV guide for details of the time for Tinsel.
The argument was whether it is true that the man was in love with the pregnant lady. My take was that he wasn’t. He just cared for her
1. As a woman he dated before
2. A woman he claimed to have loved even if to get what he wanted
3. A woman carrying his baby
That was my reasons because I’ve watched many films and we usually discuss after. There have been several film where the fiancée refuses to go ahead with a a wedding another lady got pregnant for her man. The man will beg and beg and she will refuse, some end happily, others don’t end so happily.
But what I learned from all that is that men usually love the one they want to marry or the one they are married to. Any other one is a mistake (at least so they say), that they are silly to make and cause problems for the women folk. I also believe that one cannot be in love with two different people at the same time, at least not with the same intensity.
So unless, the man was forced to marry am woman (that still happen in this age?), or he has stopped loving his wife, another woman getting pregnant for him shouldn’t dissolve his marriage. He made the mistake, so he should take responsibility; he should be made to, for the woman and her child.
But his wife shouldn’t leave, especially if he apologies and explains and promises no to do such again. He will take proper care of his mistress and the child but not at the expense of his wife and children or fiancée as the case may be.
That is what I think, what of you? What do you think? What will you do if you are a woman and in such a position, will you leave your man? If you are planning to marry and someonelse gets pregnant for you will leave your love and marry the pregnant one?
I love to hear your comments.