Want to get the best out of your internet dating? These are the tips that will help you make sure you don’t get burned engaging in the virtual world.
1 Attitude: Your attitude is everything. You need to have a good attitude about way you are doing. Believe you are the best there is, that you deserve every good thing that comes your way. You deserve the happiness that comes your way. With that attitude you will go far. Believe that that you are going to he best date there is in the virtual world.
2 The site: Be very careful the site(s) you choose to use for getting your date. This sis your life we re talking about. Choose site that is reputable, dedicated to helping their customers and have been around for long. If possible get a recommendation from a friend about the site before joining.
3 Profiling Site: This means that the site uses the answers you answer to match you with people of similar interests. Choose a site that uses psychometric profiling. With the basic questions that you are asked they’ll get you lots of match-ups.
4 Profile picture: Make your profile as interesting as possible. Use a good picture; you will get better results with a picture than without one. If you are worried that someone you know might see your picture, use a site that allows you to set your profile so that only people you choose can see you.
5 Free trials: Take advantage of free trials as many sites offer a free trial. Usually this does not allow you to actually contact the other person, but it does allow you to see your possible matches, and get a feel for how the site works.
6 Your Profile: This is where most people get it wrong. In addition to using the series of answers most sites give you to help you fill in your profile details, try to add more of your own. It really helps as it’ll differentiate you from so many otters that are using the same answers.
7 Security: This should be the first thing on your mind whenever you are engaging on any relationship so you don’t love your life. More so with internet dating you don’t see the person until much later. It is paramount that you give out certain details about yourself till you are sure it’s safe. Stuff like telephone numbers and home address shouldn’t be given easily.
8 Inform a friend: Whatever you are doing in the internet world, at least give a few details about it to your sister or brother or a trusted friend. Especially when you are going to meet a date you’ve seen online give the address to your friend. And meet with your date in an open place, come with own car, if possible be the one to pick the point of meet.
9 Perseverance: Perseverance is everything. You need to be patient; you can’t just go in today and expect to find a date tomorrow. It doesn’t work that way. You need to search, research and check every information you get thoroughly before making a move.
10 Honesty: Be truthful about the things you put in your profile. If you are not comfortable with the answer to a question, just say so, instead of giving the wrong answer or lying about anything. If things work out fine and you find a great date and when you start meeting, your date discovers that everything about you have been lies that will be the end of the relationship. Not to mention the damage to your reputation.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Monday, September 6, 2010
Women that Men want
Nowadays men want more from women. The notion that the woman’s place is in the kitchen is no loner valid in today’s world. Women contribute so much in today’s economy , they contribute as much as the men if not more. You’ll think men will not like that, on the contrary they do. Modern men like women who work. Men understand that our world have changed, its no longer leave it all for the men, he is the man of the house, no. Times have changed As Bob Dylan says, The times they are a changing. Ladies to get and hold the right guy for, you need to know what a man wants from you and give it to him. These are the characteristics of women that most men if not all men are looking for and will do everything to get.
1. Love: Love makes the world go round, love moves anybody even the strongest men. Men want women who would love them truly as to be able influence them through the power of love. Love is kind and is not jealous, neither is it boastful. So show love to your partner.
2. Respect: As they say respect is reciprocal, but some women don’t respect their men. Even if you are the one providing the bread, paying the house, paying the fees, lady you should give your man absolute 100% respect. Give him the respect he deserves, the one due him.
3. Communication: Men wants a woman they can communicate clearly with, not muffled communication, not misunderstood expression, or worst unexpressed feelings. You should men what you say and say what you mean. Be clear and uncomplicated in your discussions, use simple language and sentences.
4. Honesty: It is, have been and will always be the best policy. You should be totally honest with your guy especially in things pertaining to the relationship, that’ll guarantee it’ll work. When you are late from he shouldn’t have any trouble believing your story.
5. Trust: I will always tell you that without trust no relationship can last. A man wants a woman he can trust, absolutely and all times. A man needs a woman he can entrust his life, finances and family to with absolute confidence things will run smoothly even in his absence.
6. Independent: Of course a man wants to feel that he is there for your security and independence, but you have to be independent in certain areas, it really turns them on. When you ask for money to buy every single thing, he likes that. Imagine asking for money to buy a hanky or head tie.
7. Emotionally balance: Of course this is obvious, that way the man will feel more at ease e with you. Don’t be a nagging woman; no man likes a nagging woman. A man doesn’t want to be manipulated into a relationship. Don’t use tears, sex or too much talking to get him to do things for you. It doesn’t show your emotional maturity.
8. Intelligent: By this I don’t en you should get a PhD or your man to find you attractive. No that’s not what I’m talking about. I men someone is proactive, reliable, dynamic and creative. The days of the sole provider are gone. Now a man wants his woman to be as responsible as him.
9. Caring: Every woman should be caring, that is one of our great qualities as women. Men are caring at times especially when they want something (ok maybe not) but they need a woman who can show understanding and support to him every time.
10. Beautiful. Now isn’t that obvious. Ok before you say aha don’t buy that form for miss world yet, you might not win. Come on, you have to slim down real well; I hear some undergo surgery and remove ribs to look the right size for the competition ehew! I’m sure your man likes you the way you are. Moreover I’m talking of inner beauty. Again you try and maintain your beauty.
Ladies that’s really all it takes to attract and hold the right guy.
1. Love: Love makes the world go round, love moves anybody even the strongest men. Men want women who would love them truly as to be able influence them through the power of love. Love is kind and is not jealous, neither is it boastful. So show love to your partner.
2. Respect: As they say respect is reciprocal, but some women don’t respect their men. Even if you are the one providing the bread, paying the house, paying the fees, lady you should give your man absolute 100% respect. Give him the respect he deserves, the one due him.
3. Communication: Men wants a woman they can communicate clearly with, not muffled communication, not misunderstood expression, or worst unexpressed feelings. You should men what you say and say what you mean. Be clear and uncomplicated in your discussions, use simple language and sentences.
4. Honesty: It is, have been and will always be the best policy. You should be totally honest with your guy especially in things pertaining to the relationship, that’ll guarantee it’ll work. When you are late from he shouldn’t have any trouble believing your story.
5. Trust: I will always tell you that without trust no relationship can last. A man wants a woman he can trust, absolutely and all times. A man needs a woman he can entrust his life, finances and family to with absolute confidence things will run smoothly even in his absence.
6. Independent: Of course a man wants to feel that he is there for your security and independence, but you have to be independent in certain areas, it really turns them on. When you ask for money to buy every single thing, he likes that. Imagine asking for money to buy a hanky or head tie.
7. Emotionally balance: Of course this is obvious, that way the man will feel more at ease e with you. Don’t be a nagging woman; no man likes a nagging woman. A man doesn’t want to be manipulated into a relationship. Don’t use tears, sex or too much talking to get him to do things for you. It doesn’t show your emotional maturity.
8. Intelligent: By this I don’t en you should get a PhD or your man to find you attractive. No that’s not what I’m talking about. I men someone is proactive, reliable, dynamic and creative. The days of the sole provider are gone. Now a man wants his woman to be as responsible as him.
9. Caring: Every woman should be caring, that is one of our great qualities as women. Men are caring at times especially when they want something (ok maybe not) but they need a woman who can show understanding and support to him every time.
10. Beautiful. Now isn’t that obvious. Ok before you say aha don’t buy that form for miss world yet, you might not win. Come on, you have to slim down real well; I hear some undergo surgery and remove ribs to look the right size for the competition ehew! I’m sure your man likes you the way you are. Moreover I’m talking of inner beauty. Again you try and maintain your beauty.
Ladies that’s really all it takes to attract and hold the right guy.
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