Monday, September 6, 2010

Women that Men want

Nowadays men want more from women. The notion that the woman’s place is in the kitchen is no loner valid in today’s world. Women contribute so much in today’s economy , they contribute as much as the men if not more. You’ll think men will not like that, on the contrary they do. Modern men like women who work. Men understand that our world have changed, its no longer leave it all for the men, he is the man of the house, no. Times have changed As Bob Dylan says, The times they are a changing. Ladies to get and hold the right guy for, you need to know what a man wants from you and give it to him. These are the characteristics of women that most men if not all men are looking for and will do everything to get.
1. Love: Love makes the world go round, love moves anybody even the strongest men. Men want women who would love them truly as to be able influence them through the power of love. Love is kind and is not jealous, neither is it boastful. So show love to your partner.
2. Respect: As they say respect is reciprocal, but some women don’t respect their men. Even if you are the one providing the bread, paying the house, paying the fees, lady you should give your man absolute 100% respect. Give him the respect he deserves, the one due him.
3. Communication: Men wants a woman they can communicate clearly with, not muffled communication, not misunderstood expression, or worst unexpressed feelings. You should men what you say and say what you mean. Be clear and uncomplicated in your discussions, use simple language and sentences.
4. Honesty: It is, have been and will always be the best policy. You should be totally honest with your guy especially in things pertaining to the relationship, that’ll guarantee it’ll work. When you are late from he shouldn’t have any trouble believing your story.
5. Trust: I will always tell you that without trust no relationship can last. A man wants a woman he can trust, absolutely and all times. A man needs a woman he can entrust his life, finances and family to with absolute confidence things will run smoothly even in his absence.
6. Independent: Of course a man wants to feel that he is there for your security and independence, but you have to be independent in certain areas, it really turns them on. When you ask for money to buy every single thing, he likes that. Imagine asking for money to buy a hanky or head tie.
7. Emotionally balance: Of course this is obvious, that way the man will feel more at ease e with you. Don’t be a nagging woman; no man likes a nagging woman. A man doesn’t want to be manipulated into a relationship. Don’t use tears, sex or too much talking to get him to do things for you. It doesn’t show your emotional maturity.
8. Intelligent: By this I don’t en you should get a PhD or your man to find you attractive. No that’s not what I’m talking about. I men someone is proactive, reliable, dynamic and creative. The days of the sole provider are gone. Now a man wants his woman to be as responsible as him.
9. Caring: Every woman should be caring, that is one of our great qualities as women. Men are caring at times especially when they want something (ok maybe not) but they need a woman who can show understanding and support to him every time.
10. Beautiful. Now isn’t that obvious. Ok before you say aha don’t buy that form for miss world yet, you might not win. Come on, you have to slim down real well; I hear some undergo surgery and remove ribs to look the right size for the competition ehew! I’m sure your man likes you the way you are. Moreover I’m talking of inner beauty. Again you try and maintain your beauty.
Ladies that’s really all it takes to attract and hold the right guy.

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