It takes two to Tango

Still on that programme , Tinsel (I love this soap). Continuing from the last scene here the man Regi said that it takes two to tango, it is so true. Remember he rebuked the waiter and said there are always two sides to every story. I agree with him. It takes two tango. The pregnant PA was as much at fault as him. No one used each other here, both are to blame for anything that occurs. Bothe should bear the full consequences and they are, believe me but the innocent bystander Regi’s wife is also suffering.
I brought this up because I hear a lot stories sometimes, when advertisity occurs, instead the people involved trying to solve the problem, they start looking for a scape goat. They look for whom to blame for their misfortune, forgetting that they were involved from the beginning. If a young lady gets pregnant for instance and assuming she comes from a rich home her father will call the police to arrest and detain the boy responsible instead of calling his daughter and hearing from her. The boy did not rape his daughter, they were friends, just that the father could not stomach the thought of a poor boy impregnating his precious daughter.
Or a situation a lady gets pregnant for a man and he abandons her. First he asks her whether she was not on pills and then he asks if he is the only boyfriend she has. Just because he feels that he's not ready for marriage, then he runs away and abandons the poor girl to suffer alone.
It is not good, it’s very bad. Remember the beginning, when things were moving on fine between you both. Now that things have turned sour both of you should sort it together.
Anyway over to tinsel, Regi answered the question of yesterday with my answers. The whole 3 of them, can you believe it. I don’t want to say it but I told you so. Anyway he’s having this entire problem because he is not an alpha male. Want to know who is an alpha male, want to be one, send me an email at ugojules@gmail.com with the subject line; free ebook-alpha male and I will send you the free ebook on how to be an alpha.
Till next time. You know I always love your comments.

I got the best answer in Yahoo Answers

Yes I really did. My answer was chosen among other answers. This is not the first time it is happening to me, but it’s been a while that happened. And I am so excited.

You can check the question:
What would be your best advice for LDRs? (Long distance relationships)?

Yeah that’s me. My picture. I ‘m a bomb aint I. Yeah. Anyway I won. So let me celebrate, pop the champagne, jump around, do a little victory dance as yahoo instructed me. Ha ha a ha.

You know I truly, sincerely, totally believe everything That I wrote there. Oh yeah I believe that love is be all and end all of any relationship. The reason I wrote that answer wasn’t because I wanted to be chosen as the best, no it was mainly because of two reasons
1- I really believe anyone in such situation can work things out, if only that’s what they want.
2- I am in one. Um-hu. I am in a long distance relation ship, so I know where it pinches most.

My dearest lives in... well we are two countries apart. It hurts but we agreed that it’s the best situation right now. Definitely we won’t continue like this, we’ll stat living together soon. As that is the ideal, couples should stay together always. But sometimes circumstances don’t always align well for everybody so that in the beginning you both need to adjust.

Like I wrote, with love as the number ingredient one you’ll make. Love is at the beginning, middle and end of any relationship. The end being in your ripe old age. As long as there is true love, there will be mutual respect and understanding between the two of you and then you are set.

Again remember to keep the flame of love alive all the time. Send eh text messages. Not just “how was your day text” but also “missing you text”. Also sexy messages are allowed make it steamy, hot.

Don’t miss the phone calls, very important. Use emails and chat online whenever possible. Let’s stop here for now.

Next time I’ll get into the pros and cons of LDR(Long-distance –relationships). Meanwhile what do you think? Is there any more factors that need to be added to make it work? Do you even think it can work? Your comments are highly appreciated. Thanks.

Ten tips for best internet dating

Want to get the best out of your internet dating? These are the tips that will help you make sure you don’t get burned engaging in the virtual world.

1 Attitude: Your attitude is everything. You need to have a good attitude about way you are doing. Believe you are the best there is, that you deserve every good thing that comes your way. You deserve the happiness that comes your way. With that attitude you will go far. Believe that that you are going to he best date there is in the virtual world.
2 The site: Be very careful the site(s) you choose to use for getting your date. This sis your life we re talking about. Choose site that is reputable, dedicated to helping their customers and have been around for long. If possible get a recommendation from a friend about the site before joining.
3 Profiling Site: This means that the site uses the answers you answer to match you with people of similar interests. Choose a site that uses psychometric profiling. With the basic questions that you are asked they’ll get you lots of match-ups.
4 Profile picture: Make your profile as interesting as possible. Use a good picture; you will get better results with a picture than without one. If you are worried that someone you know might see your picture, use a site that allows you to set your profile so that only people you choose can see you.
5 Free trials: Take advantage of free trials as many sites offer a free trial. Usually this does not allow you to actually contact the other person, but it does allow you to see your possible matches, and get a feel for how the site works.
6 Your Profile: This is where most people get it wrong. In addition to using the series of answers most sites give you to help you fill in your profile details, try to add more of your own. It really helps as it’ll differentiate you from so many otters that are using the same answers.
7 Security: This should be the first thing on your mind whenever you are engaging on any relationship so you don’t love your life. More so with internet dating you don’t see the person until much later. It is paramount that you give out certain details about yourself till you are sure it’s safe. Stuff like telephone numbers and home address shouldn’t be given easily.
8 Inform a friend: Whatever you are doing in the internet world, at least give a few details about it to your sister or brother or a trusted friend. Especially when you are going to meet a date you’ve seen online give the address to your friend. And meet with your date in an open place, come with own car, if possible be the one to pick the point of meet.
9 Perseverance: Perseverance is everything. You need to be patient; you can’t just go in today and expect to find a date tomorrow. It doesn’t work that way. You need to search, research and check every information you get thoroughly before making a move.
10 Honesty: Be truthful about the things you put in your profile. If you are not comfortable with the answer to a question, just say so, instead of giving the wrong answer or lying about anything. If things work out fine and you find a great date and when you start meeting, your date discovers that everything about you have been lies that will be the end of the relationship. Not to mention the damage to your reputation.